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E B Top Cat, TC for short, enjoying a beautiful Upstate NY day. |
April in Upstate New York is a crapshoot, weather-wise. You
never know if you’ll be sliding into snow pants or tossing that tuke in favor
of a beloved ball cap until you roll out of bed and take a step or two outside.
The beginning days of April looked promising – I was cleaning stalls in a long
sleeve shirt, my beat up ball cap emblazoned with just the number 13, and
lightweight rubber boots. I was hopeful. I’d planned a 35th birthday
party for E B Top Cat on Saturday April 9th, invited friends and
family alike, and spent a week obsessively cleaning my 55 year old barn.
Mother Nature has been fickle this year to say the least.
Usually, I don’t mind. I was thankful for the light snowfall we experienced
this winter. I feel like dancing every spring day that I don’t need a jacket. The
bottom line is that the last three seasons have been mostly stress free for my
older residents and for that I’m always thankful. So, when I awoke on April 9th
and it was predicted that the day wouldn’t heat up past 30 degrees, I took a
deep breath while sliding into my snow pants and was thankful for the people
(my cousin, Sandy, my best friend, Jen and my little brother, Brian) who were
willing to slide into their snow pants as well and throw a birthday party for a
horse.
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TC and his life mate, Breeze. |
The closer we got to party time, the more regrets poured in
on Facebook. In the end, we had about 35 people that braved the cold and
embraced the silly magic of wishing a graying, elderly gelding a happy birthday. Some
guests brought cards filled with wishes of many happy years to come. Others
brought presents. My dear neighbor, Cindy brought Top Cat a new fly mask, a
very thoughtful gift for a serious pasture weight! My friend, Joanne, brought
Top Cat a can of Budweiser, as the old man loves his grain soaked in a can of
beer. My caring trainer, Ginny, brought a feed store gift certificate, knowing
that older horses have greater nutrition needs than their younger counterparts.
She told me that he looked amazing and that she was very proud of my management
of him. Every time I think of her saying that, I smile and my heart swells. It’s
the best compliment I’ve received in a long time. Other guests brought carrots
and bananas, handing them out as they leisurely floated from one stall to the
next, each horse sticking a nose over their gate to investigate and be social. The
wind was brutal that day, but the sunshine prevailed and our guest’s laughter
and good will helped to make the day as bright as it could be.
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Party guests at TC's 35th birthday! |
There were beautiful blue cupcakes for the humans, and a birthday
cake specifically for the horses – Sandy whipped a delightful combination of
carrots, apples, no sugar apple sauce, flax seed, rolled oats and a hint of
molasses into something that resembled a large protein bar. She cut it into 10
pieces and each horse enjoyed a piece. Top Cat couldn’t have been happier. He was
surrounded by people petting him and feeding him treats. I’d rigorously brushed
him that morning but decided against shaving him in a show horse fashion,
instead choosing to leave him “in the rough”. Even with whiskers and a slightly
grown out bridle path, he’s still stunning. Sure, he has a sway back that’s cartoonish in nature. Of course he’s going gray – his cheeks are almost
white now and it’s travelling down his neck into his legs like diluted bleach. But
there is a sparkle in his eyes that grows each year instead of diminishing. His
coat shines bright and glossy in the summer sun. His feet are so hard they’ll
break a farrier’s knife. And lately, he’s been cantering in the pasture when I call
him.
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Love rocks :) |
I know the day will come when I will be the last thing he
sees before cantering into the lush, green pastures of Heaven. It will be years
before I stop expecting to see his happy face when I walk into the barn or hear
his raspy nicker, but that’s a small price to pay for what he’s taught me. Not
only have I had to learn about geriatric horse nutrition to keep him healthy
and spry, but he’s taught me that no matter what comes your way, a positive,
never-say-die attitude is your vehicle to survive it. And when you find it
difficult to stay positive through the pain, be sure to surround yourself with
friends that see the positive in you
when you can’t. How do you find friends like this? See the positive in them.
Hold a mirror up to them periodically, show them the magic within. Then, maybe
if you’re lucky, you’ll be blessed with a group of amazing people who will pull
on snow pants to help you prepare for a birthday party where the guest of honor
is an aged equine.